Thursday, July 31, 2008

Relationship saviour

Its painful to see my friends getting hurt from a failed relationship. I feel that being in a relationship with someone is like taking a ride on an emotional roller coaster, so one have to really put those seatbelts on tightly.

I learnt all this from my other half, he's an excellent relationship saviour (most of our arguements are caused by me in the first place), and ultimately he's the one putting in the 49823985643986598436 % of effort in this relationship. I'm just trying my best to keep up with him.

1) spend quality time with your beloved no matter how hectic your life is. Just a short 5 min conversation over the phone will do.
2) forgive and forget. literally.
3) be patient when you're beloved's pissed or mad, or even of he/she is mad at you. Just try to calm your beloved down.
4) show your beloved that you care.
5) assure your beloved that you love him/her (for who your beloved truely is. trust and honesty and communication are the basis of every relationship, it doesn't have to be a b-g-r).

I'm no love expert, but Fariz is, so these are the major things that I learnt from our sustaining relationship. After all, with his experience (by watching a hell lot of romantic movies), he is the love guru.

I love you Fariz.
I'm sorry for being an idiot most of the times.
228 days down, forever to go.

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